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Where Ambition Meets Emotional Maturity
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Profile · Depth FirstSubstance
Julian · 38
Architect · Reader · Travels with intent
An idea I keep returning to
"We don't rise to the level of our ambition — we fall to the level of the people we keep close. So I choose carefully, and stay curious."
Values
Loyalty · Growth · Honesty
Comm Style
Direct · Thoughtful
Currently Reading
"The Beginning of Infinity"
Worldview
Curious · Well-travelled
Depth Score
94 / 100 · High Substance
A Meeting Of Minds
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